So your boyfriend just left you now, leaving you broken, shattered and hurt. And you think you don’t have a future anymore. And you’re probably just thinking to let go of him. Don’t, it’s not yet too late, you can still win him back and you can still be together for good. But before you win him back ask yourself many times, what went wrong so you can avoid winning him back.
And be sure, when you decide to get him back, you are going to keep him for good because if not you might just hurt him again and you will cause a very painful experience in his life.
I am not expert in this field but just follow these helpful steps below. I once tried this when my ex left me also.
Firstly, you might have to evaluate yourself, that way you’ll see why what’s wrong with you that led him to leave you. If you are not used in going out like attending to parties or socializing with other people, this might be the right time for you to do it. He would surely love you more if he sees that you are better even after your break up. As boys would not want their girlfriends to cling on them too much, you need to know how to stand on your own and show him you’re strong. Sometimes reverse psychology is a great strategy to do.
Then, you give him some space. You might be acting so possessive that you don’t want him to go out even with his peers. You’re boyfriend of course don’t want you to control his life as much as you don’t want him to control you. So be fair with him and give him the freedom he wanted. Give yourselves to grow individually and prove your individual capacity.
And the more important thing is to be the person he once fall in love with. I’m not saying that he don’t love you anymore. It’s just that, he might just love you less now. If you continue to change your attitude, he is more likely to no like you at anymore. Being true to yourself makes you more comfortable to be with and your moments with him will all be real.
When you make it a point to follow these steps, you will surely win your ex back.